Sorry for not posting for a few days, so I am here to update. In fact, I am not so busy that I couldn't blog, it's just that I got addicted to an online game at this crucial moment.

So... erm.. eh... hm.. I... Okay, I'll just talk about something Jinfa and I had been exchanging our thoughts on, love. As in having a relationship now.

Having a survey done with parents and students in the ratio, teenagers ought to think that having a relationship is trendy and something to be proud of. While parents have to keep up with the society, they slowly think that it's natural for their children to have relationship, therefore abiding to their insolence. Some teenagers, hooked up once, twice, and slowly, they start to need this kind of feeling, said to be 'love', like drug-addicts addicted to heroine.

I experienced this relationship thing once before. So I wish to point out a few things. First, do you few ashamed? When you and your partner cuddle together so closely in the mrt, escalator, life or any other public places. Kiss, hug and whatever affectionate action includes. I felt totally awkward, what will people see of me and my partner?

Passer-by 1?: What the fuck? Did I just saw two secondary students holding hands and looking at me? Should I look back? No, I shall go and burn more incense paper.

Passer-by 2?: Wow, such good siblings.

Passer-by 3?: Wah, father bring daughter go school ah!!

Passer-by 4?: Such a sweet couple.. Kids nowadays...

Passer-by 5?: What a nice couple.. Who provides for them?

Which passer-by do you wish the thoughts of public will be? I don't know, different people different thoughts.

Second, I used to tell my mum about my girlfriend, that I love her, we'll last, we truly love each other, she's a good girl, her parents are strict, she's good in her studies and pretty. And when my mum told me, what do you kids know about love? I got vey pissed. So what if we're still young? We still understand love don't we? Yes, we always do. Love for friends, love for family, love for relatives, a naturally love from bond. But we don't know and are not mature enough to condition love, to change for love, to care for love, to obey to love, to love. Now, I realised. Mum's words were not wrong, not a single letter.

Thirdly, what do you all quarrel about?

1. Oi, today very close to sombody horh.
2. Why got time for friend no time for me?
3. Why didn't reply my message?
4. Still thinking of your ex?
5. Why didn't you help me carry my bag?
6. Darling! Buy me this one! Ner-ooh.
Even the one of the most stupid one
7. Why can't I hold you?

I don't know what you all have to quarrel about. Just answer this. Does your parents quarrel like this? You might all think that they are living together already, they are old, they have us, the teenagers already, and maybe they have no time to quarrel? It's because we have too much time, we create unnecessary disputes. And have you thought about another one too? We are all human.

I think these are enough for you to dwell on other factors.

My calendar and plans.

October 9 to 20, EOY.
October, STC Pulau Ubin training.
October, Halloween Night Safari.
October, JunJie is coming back.
November 2 to 8, Cambodia.
December, family oversea trip, Vietnam, Taiwan, Seoul, Japan or Orchard Ion.

That's it for now, all I am clear on what I am gonna do is, spend time completing the puzzle with BinHao, playing online games with him, swimming during alternate mornings, build up, sun-tan, basketball with Jinfa and Co. No shopping I hope. I don't quite want a life like that, spending money, cash and whipping out your atm or credit card. So dead lifeless. The planning I came up with is going to be perfect, with somemore photography and outdoor activities.

Woooh, gonna sleep now. Take care people, refrain from tagging..!

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